I’ll be the first to admit I’m overweight, actually obese. However, I fall into the fat-fit category. That’s the opposite of skinny-fat and from what I’ve read is actually healthier than skinny fat in some ways. It’s also frustrating. There’s this great, fit person inside me, literally surrounded by a thick layer of fat. I’m not just saying that either. Here’s the latest proof.
My husband ordered some furnace parts for me to bring home as checked baggage. They were in 2 boxes, one weighed about 45 pounds and the other 25. At the airport, my dad helped get the heavy box from his trunk onto the little bag cart because that was awkward. Then I plopped the smaller box on top and we were on our way. At the bag counter, the clerk saw me deftly unload the bigger box (with a little help from my kids to keep the cart from rolling away) and was rather amazed I didn’t need help (being a short, fat woman). When we arrived in Alaska, I wrestled both boxes from the baggage belt. A guy tried to help me, but the box was too heavy for him to lift.
I don’t understand why so many women are afraid of doing strength training. The most common reasons are intimidation and fear. They don’t know where to start and feel intimidated being around the men. When I was a member of a gym, I was often the only woman in the weight room. Ironically, sometimes the men were intimidated by ME. They didn’t know how to react to a woman in “their” territory. However, most guys were helpful and encouraging once they realized I was serious about being there. You just need to ignore the roosters.
Another reason women don’t want to use weights is they are afraid of bulking up. That is a myth. Women don’t have enough testosterone to build huge muscles like guys. The women you see in body building magazines are very dedicated and work very hard at it. A few short sessions each week won’t make you look like that. You will get nicely toned and some definition though. In other words, you will look fit.
Instead, they spend endless hours on the same cardio machines. Yet weight training has longer lasting results than most cardio. With traditonal, steady state cardio, you get a boost to your metabolism while preforming the exercise but it quickly resets to normal once you stop. With weight training, you also get a boost while exercising. However, it builds muscle which raises your metabolism long term. A good fitness program should combine cardio and strength training.
Regular strength training has other benefits as well. Besides strong muscles, it helps build strong bones. That is especially important to women as they get older and are more prone to fractures.
So, my goal is to begin unwrapping my fit body from it’s layer of fat. I just got on the scale and am currently 177 pounds. My goal weight is 125 and my ideal is 105-110. I’m going to use a combination of cardio and strength training with motivation from Oxygen magazine, my friends here and on Team Beachbody. As added motivation, when we were in Japan I saw several cute dresses. My husband told me he would take me back for a shopping trip when I reached my goal.
I don’t know how long it will take. Theoretically, it can be done in 6 months if I lose 2 pounds/week every week. That’s probably not realistic though. As long as the overall trend is down, I’m not in a rush.